
Every night just as Josh and I sit down to watch some tv. Our dog Charlie always ends up needing something, he goes to Josh and wines and barks at him. It is usually a guessing game to figure out if he needs water, food or go outside. But the fact he goes straight to Josh every time makes Josh crazy. So the other night neither one of us felt like getting up. Josh asked me why Charlie always has to bother him and not me. I had to think quick because I really didn't want to get up. I came up with a good one, I said that Charlie must just realize he is the leader, the Alpha Male. Josh thought about it a minute then got up to take the dog out:) Yeah my plan worked!!! Josh liked that Charlie had a respect or submission toward him. I have always told friends of mine that it takes 3 things to keep your husband happy and content. I truly believe that it can work miracles in a marriage. In no way am I comparing us as wives to dogs!! But it was just proof that men loooove and need respect. God created them this way. Oh yeah so RESPECT is 1 of the three needs men have.
Galations 5:13b-by love serve one another
1 Corinthians 10:31b-whatsoever ye do, do all to the glory of God
Ephesians 5:21-24-22 For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and he is the saviour of the body. Therefore as the church is subject unto Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in every thing Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord.
Respect-to view or consider with some degree of reverence, to esteem
This is not an easy task, but it can and should be done. We need to constantly be questioning the way we speak to our husbands, our body language and the attitude of our hearts. It is an everyday challenge. I know there are days I fail miserably. Thank God for forgiveness and a newness everyday.